Sunday, September 27, 2009

City Bus

Last Sunday was hot! The temperature while I was directing traffic in the parking lot and in the middle of the street was nothing short of brutal. Perhaps because the heat tends to slow things down, there were a lot more people showing up late for the 10:15 service than usual. This was not necessarily a bad thing, as Pastor Bob running a bit late and people from the 8:30 service were leaving the parking lot much later than usual.

This meant that the late-comers were able to snag a space in the parking lot as people trickled out. This is sometimes the case, and is one of the miracles I get to witness on a regular basis as I direct traffic and dodge cars in our parking lots. I enjoy the intricate ballet of cars leaving and entering the lots, and liken it much to the “loaves and the fishes”. I often will wave a car onto the lot, even though I know full well that there are no empty spaces. Yet somehow God provides, and someone will decide to leave at that exact moment.

As I said, a lot more people showed up late last Sunday, so it was 10:30 before all the traffic subsided and I was making my way back toward the Worship Center. As I walked off the north lot, I passed the church’s laboring air-conditioning plant and noticed the open side doors of the Worship Center. Now, I’m always telling my family to keep the doors closed when the AC is on, so I figured I veer over and close the doors to the Worship Center to try to keep some of the cool air in the building. As I approached, I could hear that Pastor Bob was already into his message, and I found a man with a baby and a small boy at the doors. The man was feeding the baby a bottle, and while the baby seemed content, the man seemed irritated. I suggested to the man that he might be more comfortable in our baby room. It’s air-conditioned, has comfortable seats, baby facilities, toys for his young boy, and has a sound system that allows parents to hear the service. He didn’t seem to care about utilizing the baby room, and informed me that the young boy was not his. Indeed, he wondered aloud why the boy’s parents weren’t controlling him, as the boy was trying to close the door the man was holding open for fresh air (go figure).

“Are your mommy and daddy in church?” I asked the little guy.

“No,” he answered, “my Daddy’s at home and my Mommy’s on the city bus.” He replied.

“Oh, did you come with your grandparents? Or did you come with a friend?” I countered.

The boy, Evan, as I later learned, was not only bright and articulate, but quite insistent for a 5-year old. After repeatedly telling me that “Mommy’s on the city bus,” he brightened up, cried out: “Come… see,” and took off at a run toward the Life Center building. I followed, though my failing knees, ankles, and feet kept me from keeping up with a running child. I didn’t even have time to think about him losing me, as he kept doubling back to cheerfully encourage me to “come on… hurry up!”

He stopped just in front of the Life Center, and proudly proclaimed: “City bus!”

As began to catch up to him, I finally saw what he meant. There, parked between the Life Center and our Youth Center was… the Red Cross Mobile Blood Unit… certainly a bus. An adult could read that the vehicle was the Red Cross Blood Mobile, but to 5-year old Evan, it was the “city bus.”

As a matter of fact, as I escorted Evan toward the waiting area set up by the back doors of the bus, the doors opened, and there was a young woman who had just given blood sitting in the recuperation area just inside the bus. Triumphantly, Evan cried out: “See? Mommy’s on the city bus!”

Now, it is not all that uncommon to find children who have slipped away from their parents, and are exploring the many fascinating corners of our campus. In this case, Evan’s mother, Kathleen, had left him with the volunteers in the blood donor waiting area, and he had wandered over to the playground during a few hectic moments. From there, it was only a few steps to the side doors of the church… where I found Evan.

As I sat chatting with Kathleen, I discovered that she was just visiting our campus, not to worship with us, but to give. Her home church did not sponsor blood drives, so when our church hosts Red Cross blood drives… she comes to donate her blood. The bandage on her arm told the story of how successful her giving had been on this day. Like me, she has one of the rare blood types, so she donates as often as she can. Both of us agreed that it felt good to know that we could donate a pint of our blood, and that it might well save a life. I thanked her for her gift to the community, and I thanked Evan for teaching me about the “city bus.”

Later, as I reflected on this tiny part of my day, I realized that we need to be more active in sponsoring Prayer Drives. Each of us has a different kind of prayer power inside of us. What if we asked for people to channel just a tiny bit of their prayer to people they don’t know? I can’t do anything with a pint of my own blood, but the Red Cross can do amazing things with it. It’s the same with prayer. I can’t accomplish anything by trying to direct my own prayers, but when I give my prayers to God, He can do amazing things with it.

I’m not going to try to tell anyone how to pray. I’m just asking: “How’s YOUR prayer life?” Have you given in prayer without any thought of knowing how it might be applied? Have you responded to a Prayer Drive (request for prayer)? Like Kathleen… have you gone out of your way… and out of your comfort zone to give?

Your brother in Christ,

Dave

Tuesday, September 22, 2009

Flawed

The following is a Chinese folktale. I have heard it retold many times, but this time I’ll quote no less an authority than the New York State Testing Program (Grade 4) which attributed the retelling of this story to Carolyn Han, with illustrations by Christine Joy Pratt.



The Cracked Chinese Jug

by Carolyn Han
illustrated by Christine Joy Pratt

Each morning Han Han fetched water for his village from the river. He placed a bamboo shoulder pole across his back and put the empty jugs on either side.

When Han Han returned to the village, he had one and a half jugs of water. One clay jug had a tiny crack, and some of its water had leaked out.

The perfect jug was proud of itself. It had carried a full load of water. But the imperfect jug was embarrassed. It had done only half of the work.

One day the cracked jug could stand it no longer. “I’m a failure,” it cried. “Why do I have a crack?”

Ignoring the jug’s cry, Han Han carefully filled both jugs with water at the river. By the time they reached the village, the cracked jug was again only half full. “Why don’t you throw me away?” asked the broken jug.

Han Han smiled at the jugs and put them on the shelf.

The next morning when Han Han placed the jugs on the ends of his shoulder pole, he said to the broken one, “For months, I’ve heard you complain.”

“I’m ashamed of myself,” answered the cracked jug. “I’m worthless.”

“Today when we return to the village, I want you to look along the path,” said Han Han.

It was the first time the broken jug noticed the flowers. The colorful flowers made the cracked jug very happy. But then it remembered its crack and the leaking water, and again it felt sad.

“What did you think of the flowers?” asked Han Han.

“They’re pretty,” replied the jug. “They’re only growing on my side of the path.”

“That’s right,” said Han Han. “For months you’ve watered the wildflower seeds. Your ‘failure,’ as you call it, has changed our village and made it more beautiful.”

“Then all that time I felt useless,” said the cracked jug, “my flaw was really my most valuable part!”

God wants to use us. He has already paid for our redemption… flaws and all. He’s not looking for perfection; He wishes to use our uniqueness (what we sometimes perceive as flaws) for a wonderful purpose that we can barely imagine.

The apostle Paul had a flaw he called “a thorn in his flesh” that he asked God to take away. Paul speaks of it in 2 Corinthians 12:7-9…

“To keep me from becoming conceited because of these surpassingly great revelations, there was given me a thorn in my flesh, a messenger of Satan, to torment me. Three times I pleaded with the Lord to take it away from me. But he said to me, "My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness." Therefore I will boast all the more gladly about my weaknesses, so that Christ's power may rest on me.”

But God knew better. God knew that he had just the right vessel with Paul; not just to carry the Holy Spirit, but to be the perfect tool to water and grow a new and emerging church.

So stop worrying about your flaws. Let yourself be filled with the joy of the Holy Spirit, and know that when God’s Spirit leaks out of your flaws… it is to God’s plan and purpose. Perhaps you spill hope from your flaw, maybe it is encouragement, or it could just be unconditional love.

Remember the words of Paul (and I’m taking the liberty to paraphrase a tiny bit):

“God’s power is made perfect in our flaws!”

Your brother in Christ,

Dave

Wednesday, September 16, 2009

Plugged In, But Disconnected

Sunday was our Rally Day, and our Ministry Fair, and our Annual Church Picnic… all rolled into one glorious day. With near perfect weather, we celebrated our ministry efforts and opportunities, provided a sumptuous picnic lunch, played games, raffled prizes, shared in awesome fellowship, and consumed huge numbers of snow-cones (well… the kids sure did). The parking lots were full to overflowing, and so was the street parking around the church. We had many more people show up than we anticipated, but we didn’t run out of anything. That had less to do with any type of miracle, and more to do with some intelligent planning by all the hard-working folks that made the whole thing happen.

Before taking up my position of snow-cone wrangler, I was determined to try to photograph most of the event. Now, being the person I am, that also meant talking to almost everybody. Since I am the chief contributor to the ‘Alive in the Spirit’ blog, I am also the chief promoter of said blog, so… I would ask people if they had read the blog lately. The unanimous answer was: “No.” Now these are my brothers and sisters in a fellowship better know as ‘church’, so rather than just leave it at that, most seemed to need to offer some sort of reason as to why they hadn’t read the blog lately. There were some really creative excuses, but for the most part, one basic problem resonated among my friends: “I’d love to read the blog, but I can barely keep up with email and Facebook, as it is. I just haven’t got the time!”

I really enjoy the comic strip ‘Zits’ by Jerry Scott and Jim Borgman, as they have their fingers on the pulse of the ‘plugged-in’ society in which we live. Most of us are constantly connected to our cell phone, and through them we are connected to text messaging, email, and the internet. We are plugged into our families, our friends, sports scores, Twitter, YouTube, blogs, Myspace, and Facebook. We can communicate instantly and we have access to much of the learning and information that is available in the world today.

Never in history have we ever been so plugged in.

Yet, never in history have we ever been so disconnected from each other!

So much information, so little time… and it’s getting worse. Just look at all the spam email you receive. I mean, really… various body part enhancements, drugs, debt consolidation, chain letters, hoaxes, and political mud slinging. Sadly, more than half of it comes from our friends. Sure, a funny YouTube video might really be hilarious, but after 10 of your friends send it to you, it is just a big time waster… having to delete what now amounts to spam from your mailbox.

Compared to text messaging, email is only a minor time-waster. So many parents have had to place their families on unlimited calling plans because their teenager had racked up hundreds of dollars in text messaging charges. And what’s so important that it needs to be messaged 24/7/365? From what I can tell, after exhaustive survey of teenage text users, it’s pretty much critical information like:

- i’m bored
- this class is so lame
- sk8ers 4evr
- ur a noob
- i’m hungry
- ; p

Twitter, Myspace, and Facebook are pretty much more of the same. I’d guess that 90% of what passes for communication and social networking is totally useless idle chatter. What isn’t vacuous content is coarse, crude, or rude. It should really come as no surprise: people text whatever happens to pop into their head. Should anyone attempt to castigate them, they act like you are infringing on a God-given right. Of course, since spelling, grammar, and vocabulary don’t matter to this plugged-in world, most are horrified that you would even think of castigating them. Though they might be erroneously thinking of a surgical procedure, threatening them with a rebuke is just as onerous. LOL!!! I’m not worried about any of them taking offense, because they stopped reading at 255 characters.

While being plugged-in is tremendously important these days, we seem to be disconnected in a big way.

Like Jeremy in the Zits comic strip, we can be so focused on being plugged-in that we completely disconnect with those around us… often in rude, thoughtless, and boorish ways.

Some of the most spectacular recent public examples of this disconnect have been impossible to ignore:

- Representative Joe Wilson shouting “You lie” during a speech by President Obama.

- Tennis star Serena Williams threatening, with expletives, to cram her tennis ball down a lineswoman’s throat at the U.S. Open (after Serena had earlier splintered a racket on the court in a rage, I think everyone was quite concerned for the lineswoman).

- Singer Kanye West grabbing the microphone from Taylor Swift and insisting that the award she was accepting should have gone to Beyonce.

No less spectacular, but far less newsworthy, are the daily disconnects we see in rude and volatile drivers, the disrespect children show to their parents and teachers, the disrespect we show each other when a call, text, or twitter is more important than a face-to-face conversation.

The irony of me writing this on a computer, formatting the pictures, posting to the blog, and knowing that it is forwarded to Facebook does not escape me.

On Sunday, I saw people connecting in a good way. During our picnic they queued up politely for food, brought drinks to people sitting near them, worked and shared and served together, played together, and encouraged their kids to be polite and nice (this sometimes reads: scolding). It was a fine summer day, a fun picnic, good friends, and stimulating conversation. People were pretty much unplugged for several hours, and they really seemed to be enjoying themselves. Our picnic accomplished what we can’t even do during our church services… it got people to turn off their phones! You can’t text and toss a water balloon at the same time… you can’t twitter and be in the 3-legged race, and you won’t be on the phone while they might be calling your winning number for the big raffle prize.

The more we plug into our social network sites and smart phones, the less we connect with God. God wants us to connect with His words… not ours. God wants us to make a difference in people’s lives… not see how many Facebook friends we can have. I’m not saying that we shouldn’t utilize technology; it’s a great tool! But we need to be able to put the tool down from time to time; otherwise it’s just another addiction… a replacement for God. God sent Jesus to redeem us from the sin that separates us from God. Jesus calls us to walk with Him in the light… don’t miss His call because you were too busy being plugged-in!

Your brother in Christ,

Dave

Sunday, September 6, 2009

Refiner of Silver

This week, I stumbled upon an old story I had put away years ago. I have no idea who the original author is. Once again, it is a story reproduced countless times via email and on sites around the world. As always, I would love to give proper credit to the author, so if you have any reliable information about this little gem, please email me with the details. Here’s the story:


There were a group of women in a Bible Study on the book of Malachi. As they were studying chapter three, they came across verse three, which reads:

"He will sit as a refiner and purifier of silver."

This verse puzzled the women and they wondered what this statement meant about the character and nature of God. One of the women offered to find out the process of refining silver and get back to the group at their next Bible Study.

That week, this woman called up a silversmith and made an appointment to watch him at work. She didn't mention anything about the reason for her interest beyond her curiosity about the process of refining silver. As she watched the silversmith, he held a piece of silver over the fire and let it heat up. He explained that in refining silver, one needed to hold the silver in the middle of the fire where the flames were hottest as to burn away all the impurities.

The woman thought about God holding us in such a hot spot - then she thought again about the verse, "He sits as a refiner and purifier of silver." She asked the silversmith if it was true that he had to sit there in front of the fire the whole time the silver was being refined. The man answered that yes, he not only had to sit there holding the silver, but he had to keep his eyes on the silver the entire time it was in the fire. If the silver was left a moment too long in the flames, it would be destroyed.

The woman was silent for a moment. Then she asked the silversmith, “How do you know when the silver is fully refined?”

He smiled at her and answered, "Oh that’s easy… when I see my image in it."

So… if you are feeling the heat of this world's fire, just remember that you are being held in God’s hands, and God is focused on you.

My wife is fond of telling our daughters: “God’s not done with you, yet.” I KNOW He’s not done with me, as I feel plenty of heat working on all my impurities. I just pray that, little by little, I continue to improve in God’s hands, and that I can reflect His image more and more.

Your brother in Christ,

Dave